Love is such a powerful word that is misused by many. Two or three days after knowing someone and you just say you love them. Don't be deceived. Love is like a seed as i always say. It grows to be a mighty tree. Love doesn't just spring after a week or a month, that's infatuation people.That's why relationships nowadays don't last.
Two three days you have known someone, maybe a lady if you are a gentleman and vice versa. After a week you into each other and starting a relationship is the only thing that is in your mind. You text them and feel as if you have texted God in heaven. You see them, you want to faint. Do yourself a favor, SLAP YOURSELF get back to reality. Love is like wine, the more it starts the more it grows. It is like a seed, the more it's nurtured the more it grows.
So really what is love? Love is not only that strong feeling that you feel for someone. Keep in mind feelings are temporal. Love is driven by acceptance that one wants to walk with another for a long time. Love is deliberate, it's not arbitrary. It is consciously built. Love is a decision in short beyond all the clumsy feelings.
Most relationship basis are feelings, such relationships don't last. This is because feelings will change with time. You can never become angry all your life. One time you are all smiley, another time you are all thinking, another time you are all angry. So it is with feelings, one time you will feel something for someone (a lady feeling for a guy and vice-versa) another time that feeling wont be there, therefore we can't depend on feelings to determine love or determine whether to start a relationship. The basis should be that decision, if you decide to love just love no matter what the circumstances. Love is built over a long time, building it is a deliberate choice that one has to make.
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