Many a times have come across many GOOD girls deeply in love and obsessed with BAD **S boys something I find difficult to understand why. In most cases good girls end up dating a certain type of person until they decide they are no longer interested in that type. Then, try to land the exact opposite convincing themselves they are testing out the waters and figuring out what exactly it is they are looking for in a partner.
From my curiosity I decided to do a research to really understand why when I stumbled on this 4 Surprising Reasons Why Good Girls Love Dating Bad Boys;
1. She Thinks She Can Fix Him
This is probably the type of girl who comes from a family background where her father was never emotionally for her, may be from divorce or some other apparent reasons. In this situation a girl decides to recreate the same distant relationship in her own life in an attempt to "fix" the emotional distance this time around.
2. She Wants Someone Familiar
Everyone is attracted to personality types that are familiar, even if they are not positive types. This means women who have a father who was a "bad boy" and perhaps a disaster as a husband is going to be attracted to the exact same emotional traits and characteristics in their own partners.
3. She Loves to Challenge Herself
For some reasons women choose a guy who is a complete opposite and offers a change of pace, new adventure and even a bit of controlled risk is a big attractor. In most cases such girls end up getting more stressed up and destructive when they fail to change a guy.
4. She Thinks She Can Save Him
The last issue that drives many "good girls" to enter into relationships with guys who are on the wild side is the drive to rescue or to salvage what she may see as a troubled soul. In reality changing a personality is impossible unless the other person recognizes the issue and genuinely wants to make a change to keep the relationship healthy.
From my curiosity I decided to do a research to really understand why when I stumbled on this 4 Surprising Reasons Why Good Girls Love Dating Bad Boys;
1. She Thinks She Can Fix Him
This is probably the type of girl who comes from a family background where her father was never emotionally for her, may be from divorce or some other apparent reasons. In this situation a girl decides to recreate the same distant relationship in her own life in an attempt to "fix" the emotional distance this time around.
2. She Wants Someone Familiar
Everyone is attracted to personality types that are familiar, even if they are not positive types. This means women who have a father who was a "bad boy" and perhaps a disaster as a husband is going to be attracted to the exact same emotional traits and characteristics in their own partners.
3. She Loves to Challenge Herself
For some reasons women choose a guy who is a complete opposite and offers a change of pace, new adventure and even a bit of controlled risk is a big attractor. In most cases such girls end up getting more stressed up and destructive when they fail to change a guy.
4. She Thinks She Can Save Him
The last issue that drives many "good girls" to enter into relationships with guys who are on the wild side is the drive to rescue or to salvage what she may see as a troubled soul. In reality changing a personality is impossible unless the other person recognizes the issue and genuinely wants to make a change to keep the relationship healthy.
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